Sexual Intercourse and sexual techniques
The leadership in any particular session of
sexual intercourse is determined by the sexual position selected; it is a
mistake to assume that the man normally takes the active or dominant role
- in woman on top the woman will normally be leading, and the man responds
to her movements.
In sex positions where the man is on
top, the woman may wish to respond to his desire to coordinate
their movements. The man, too, should allow - willingly and without
hesitation - the woman to lead him, if she so desires.
The husband should not think his wife is
threatening his sexuality if she wants to lead during sex once in a while.
The partner who takes the leading role in the sex act can readily obtain
the desired stimulation. It is only natural for the woman at times to wish
to do this.
Male Sex Movements During Intercourse
man thrusts forward and backward in the face-to-face sexual techniques and
the rear-entry sexual techniques.
Within the limits of the sex position he
can move to the right and the left in addition to the front-back movement
and twist his hips in a circle or arc to add variety.
He is free to determine the speed and depth
of his movements, but it does not necessarily mean that fast and deep
front-back movements give the best results in sexual stimulation. Such
movements should be reserved for the last moment when the man is ready to
arrive at orgasm.
A more desirable movement to enhance the
woman's orgasmic pleasure is the gentle, deep thrust and swift withdrawal,
or the alternating movements of several shallow, front-back movements and
several deep, front-back movements.
The gentle thrust arouses her expectation
and the harder thrusts may increase her desire.
This is a movement of agitation. The sex organs are
united and the sex act is performed with the external sex organs pressed
closely together. The couple derive a strong, satisfying sense of
closeness. This actually resembles the coital alignment technique - about
which you can
read more here and
The sex organs in union are pressed together. This
position is useful for resting with sex organs in close connection during
pauses in lovemaking and during or after orgasm.
Female Sex Movements During Intercourse
the face-to-face, woman-above adaptation of missionary position, the woman
must support the thrusting movements with her arms and legs.
She is usually not successful because she
tries, like the man, to press toward his sex organs instead of withdrawing
from him. The front-back movement from lower front to upper rear usually
dislodges the sex organs. It may be hard to imitate the man's front-back
movement with the hips.
Until she is accustomed to these more
elaborate movements, she should practice the straight-line movement
including the upper half of her body.
Depending on her posture, the woman moves
up and down in the front back movement, but there is less fear of his cock
popping out of her vagina if she tries moving from lower rear to upper
front. She will need more experience than the man to determine the speed
and depth of thrusting.
She can stimulate the man effectively by
advancing quickly, and gently withdrawing.
Through practice she may employ not only
the simple straight movement but also the oblique straight line from the
right and left as well as the movements in an arc or circle drawn with the
skilful twist of the hips.
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Methods of Joint Movement During
Both partners close in and withdraw simultaneously.
The stimulation is highly effective, but inexperienced partners who move
too far can easily come apart at withdrawal.
One partner advances when the other withdraws and
vice versa. Complete unison is impossible, and stimulation is
effective only with a slight lag or finesse. It is more difficult to
perform than the greeting method.
One partner rests while the other performs and vice
versa. It not applicable to all sexual techniques.
The human being has the special privilege
of being able to assume a variety of positions in sexual intercourse. The
man and woman who experience only one or a limited number of sex positions in their life span are missing much.
And of course it must be added that the best sex may come in
loving relationship, in which case the intimacy and love of the
partners may well overcome the technical failings of the mechanics of
The different sexual techniques offer one
form of enjoyment in your sex life: a change from sexual boredom, a
These sexual techniques are not necessarily
independent of one another - you can readily move into one position from
another. By separating them and selecting only one position for the entire
sex act, both partners may experience less than powerful orgasm.
Your physical limitations may prevent you
from using some positions, but try all the sexual techniques you can.
The sexual techniques may be divided into
two basic types: The face-to-face sexual techniques and the rear-entry
Others are merely their variations and
combinations. In the face-to-face position the curve of the vaginal cavity
and that of the penis are complementary and thus highly effective in
stimulating each other. In this way, the man is strongly stimulated in the
glans and the woman in the clitoris and the vaginal wall.
The face-to-face sexual techniques may be subdivided
into the following four postures, in which:
1. The woman lies on her back.
2. The man lies on his back.
3. The man sits.
4. Both partners lie on their sides.
5. Standing sexual techniques.
MAN ON TOP sexual techniques
beings prefer to make love in positions in which the partners face each
other rather than the rear-entry positions, because human sexual
intercourse is the ultimate expression of love, rather than just a lustful
instinct for reproduction.
At times we want to embrace our loved one
in our arms, but we do not stop there, we proceed to kissing and to sexual
Thus, it is only natural that in facing
each other we choose the face-to-face position for coitus.
The woman-supine position is the most
popular of all the face-to-face sexual techniques.
It is easy to perform and natural for
both the man and the woman because the man is active and the woman
passive; the man inserts his penis and the woman accepts it.
Along with the side by side sexual
techniques it is the easiest position for both partners to reach orgasm in
FEMALE LEG POSITIONS
The postures which a woman can adopt during
a session of face to
face, man on top sex depend on the position of her legs.
is the most well-known, highly suitable lovemaking position to attain
orgasm. The woman's arms are free, and she flexes her legs and spreads her
thighs in different degrees for varied stimulation. The more she flexes
her legs the more easily she can respond to the man's movements.
She is able to place her heels behind his
knees, or by raising her feet and clutching the man's thighs with them she
can move freely and lie comfortably on her back with stability.
lovers usually select this sex position for their first intercourse as it
is easy for them to enjoy penetration.
If there is a problem, she probably
did not spread her thighs wide enough, or he probably performed a clumsy
intromission in his impatience. In other words, the inexperienced man
forces his erect penis downward instead of lowering his hips and pressing
To make it easier for the woman on her
first night she should place a flat pillow under her buttocks. The pillow
should not be placed beneath her hips, for this would make it more
difficult for the man to enter her.
After some experience, the pillow should be
dispensed with in Position A. The pillow under her buttocks keeps the
pubic region facing up and prevents contact of the penis with the
The pillow under her hips corrects this
defect somewhat, but only at the expense of increased discomfort on the
part of the woman.
there is difficulty in keeping the sex organs
together, Position B is often used to follow up sex in position A. The legs are placed in
a more comfortable position than in Position A, but movement is less free
and sexual union is not as deep.
In spite of these disadvantages Position B
has some things going for it. With the legs extended flat, the pubic
region faces more downward than in A, thus stimulation of the clitoris is
The vaginal opening is narrowed further
than in Position A, thus giving more stimulation to the penis. For better
results, the woman should not spread her thighs too much - just wide
enough to make room for the man's knees.
Position B may also be used for resting after an
orgasm achieved in Position A.
A fluffy pillow placed under the buttocks
produces a unique effect in Position B. With her abdominal muscles and the
front muscles of her thighs stretched the woman will not only feel highly
ecstatic but also experience a pleasurable illusion of floating down
Position B with both her legs dangling from
the bed produces a similar effect. The bed should be high enough to
prevent the feet from reaching the floor or to permit the legs to fold
backward and the thighs to drape down or forward. The man's position should be altered
correspondingly with the varying height.
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